Often when I write one of these blogs I save it to do a final read over later before publishing. Well! Nearly a month ago I wrote a blog about the stress of house hunting, but as November was the most insanely busy month of my life, by the time I could get back to it we'd already found a place and I had to start packing. And now that I finally am getting back to it, we're all moved in and I've handed over the keys to my old apartment!
So, let me catch you up...
Early on in our friendship, Trouble and I started tossing around the idea of getting a place together. Every now and then we'd look into it, but after a few days of excitement we'd drop our new play thing and get back to our lives. I had decided a while ago that I'd move house at/towards the end of my PhD, and when I chose my last flatmate, a major draw was that she only wanted temporary accommodation. Her boyfriend is overseas, and when he returns they'll be getting a place together. I decided that I would stay on here until he came back, and then find somewhere cheaper to live. Before I left for Canada we talked about when that might be and agreed to move at the start of December.
My plan was to just find a room in an existing share house and sell off all my excess furniture, but of course I let Trouble know that I'd soon be looking for a new place to live. Well! The stars had finally aligned! She was ready to move on from her place too. We started checking out different places online and getting a sense of what we both wanted from our new home (something which has been remarkably easy since we agree on pretty much everything). We're both over the moon about finally getting a place together to make our own little queer, sex positive, clothing optional, clean and tidy, haven!
The original plan was to find a decently sized 3 bedroom house in the inner west, because, such things exist both in abundance and for very cheap. While we've both been really excited about the move, the idea of changing suburbs caused us a fair amount of anxiety. My life is very firmly established in Brunswick; I regularly spend my weekend catching up with people on a whim, something that is easy to do given that almost all my friends live within 3 km of me. Plus I've got my gym, my yoga instructor, my Pilates studio... But a new suburb would invite new adventures, and Trouble was quite keen on moving out west.
I swear to Swimming Pool, it was the moment that I'd finally made peace with the idea of leaving Brunswick that Trouble said to me SHE was really anxious about leaving Brunswick and would much prefer to stay! Well, fuck! Cue the search for an affordable 3 bedroom house in the Brunswick area...
While such houses are abundant out west, they are almost non-existent in Brunswick. Comparatively, they are smaller and more rent than what we would get out west. Of course, that is because even though TuPac claims the west side is the best side, Brunswicked is where it's at! In our search, we came across 3 houses that were only marginally over our budget. The first one we'd found out about too late, the second one was only a block up the street from my apartment, and the third one practically shared a wall with my new girlfriend's house - and she was furious we were even considering it!
When we inspected the second house, Trouble was quite taken with it. I thought it was shabby, run down, and too small and was less than thrilled about it, even though I love the location. Well, it turns out that Joni doesn't know everything! It took us a week to get our application together, but almost as soon as we'd sent it in, the real estate agent rang me up to see if we were still interested. We were approved so fast that I didn't even have a chance to get crazily stressed out about where we would live! We didn't even get around to applying for anywhere else.
We picked up the keys on Dec 1st, which just so happened to be Trouble and I's 1 year friendiversary, and have spent the past 9 days getting ourselves settled into the space. While it is an old house and a bit shabby, it's amazing how the space has transformed once we got our stuff into it! It goes to show that a bit of personality goes a long way! The front bedrooms had really hideous blue feature walls and Trouble suggested we paint them a light grey. I didn't have the time to paint, but she sorted it all out and now the rooms look fantastic!
I've got a bigger room than I had, and as we've got more space in the house, I'm also able to keep less stuff in my bedroom, making the space much more open than I'm used to. I'm resisting the urge to fill it back up with furniture, though the urge is strong! We have a really cute front courtyard, and a bright, jungly rear courtyard with a really productive fig tree. We have a kitchen with enough space to eat in, a separate lounge, and, possibly my favourite bit, a long corridor with 3 rooms: the toilet, the bath/shower, and the laundry room! The house is bright and welcoming but is also quite private. It's much more spacious than I thought it would be. We're still figuring out how best to use the space, but it's gotten to the more finicky stuff like: where best to keep the cleaning supplies and our toiletries.
There is more furniture to get. Trouble and I both need a swag of things from IKEA for our rooms, plus we could do with a few things from Bunnings. We've got to sort out a bigger fridge than the one I have at some point, and get a household internet connection established. We also need some couches for the front, since it's just the perfect space for sipping beers in the evening sun! And we'll get stuff up on the walls, give the house our special blend of pizzazz.
Now, it is a 3 bedroom house, and that means we're looking for a third to join our crew! We've decided that we want to spend December getting ourselves established into the house first, and then January we both have people visiting, so we're not in a big rush to find the third person. There's been some interest and Trouble and I are in talks about what exactly we want in a third housemate, and happily are thus far very much on the same page. Hopefully finding our third will be just as painless as finding our new house was!
For all my initial reluctance about this place, now that I'm in the space, I'm absolutely loving it! I had no sadness about handing in the keys to my old apartment, and I thought that I would. It was actually a big relief when I finished cleaning it and knew I didn't need to go back again. That's probably helped by the fact that it's been on the market for sale and having people through for inspections has been really annoying.
I'm really excited about starting this new chapter of my life. I'm excited for summer, for getting the house set up, for attempting to garden, for Trouble getting us a juicer (!!!), for my family coming to visit, for choosing our third, for finishing my thesis (eventually), for making preserves from the various fruit trees, for just about everything in my life right now really!
